Confessions Of A Blogger...

1. My biggest sexual turn on is __________?

I've gone all shy since adding my face to this blog!

Had it Not been there I might've been tempted to tell you that what turns me on, sexually speaking, is watching other people doing It while I'm at It too. I've been in a foursome with my Hubby and another couple- and two threesomes (one of each 'persuasion' MFM/FMF) and can honestly say from experience that there is nothing quite like watching someone get Done at close range...

Of course, failing that- there's always porn.

Oh...hang on. I wasn't going to tell you all that- was I?

2. On a scale of 1-10, how jealous do you get (have you gotten)?

I didn't think I was an overly jealous person until my Hubby's brother and his wife won quite a large amount on the Lotto- one point six million to be precise. When my Hubby and I got their great news we laid down on our bed and bitched and groaned for two hours straight why couldn't it have been us. Even after they gave us ten grand I was still pissed off that they had won it. And I still am. They only won this money six years ago and have wasted the lot! Goneski! It still makes me sick with jealousy. Ten!

3. Have you ever had sex with someone you work(ed) with? Any negative consequences?

My Bastard Ex worked at the same racetrack as I did; but we didn't work for the same Trainer and it wasn't until After we had both left our jobs there that we even got together- so No.

I haven't had many jobs. Four. And none in fourteen years except that of Housewife and Mother. So Technically, I suppose, I sleep with the Boss...

4. Wash up, cuddle or fall asleep?

Is this a trick? All three.

I like to wash up as I'm cooking dinner- and the pans, plates and forks are done straight after we eat.

Then it's nice to have a cuddle. And if I'm lucky (and so is he!) then we have a different kind of cuddle. The type of cuddle that elicit such questions as "What are you doing to Mummy?"

This isn't an easy question to answer a four year old.

And no they are Not sugar packets on the floor...

Then a quick Post-Coital ciggie and it's off to sleep. Night!


5. Which is more important of the two in "chemistry," physical attractiveness or sexual performance?

Physical attractiveness. If you aren't attracted to them physically you're hardly likely to jump into the sack with them are you? And if you're not in the sack with them- their sexual performance skills, or lack of them, don't make an iota of difference!

However- had the question been Which is more important of the two in "chemistry", physical attractiveness or mental attractiveness (hope y'all get at what I'm driving at here) then I don't think there is much of a dispute that with real 'chemistry' there is a spark between two individuals that often has little if nothing to do with physical attraction- but is more a meeting of the minds.

Doesn't hurt if they Are hot though, does it?

Bonus (as in optional): What kind of birth control do you use?

Frangas. And after two kids if it's Not On then it's Not On. Besides I go mental on the Pill. And I like having a natural cycle; my moods are my own; for Better or Worse! Hubby kept telling me he'd have the snip on his 30th birthday- but that was four years ago and I'm still waiting...